
Ask any waterfowl hunter what their favorite part of waterfowling is and you will hear a variety of things such as, “Watching the birds cup and drop in,” or “Seeing my dog work,” or “Seeing the sunrise over the water.” Somewhere in the mix you will get, “Spending time with someone special in the blind such as a family member or friend.”
An outsider looking at a waterfowl blind, would most likely frown with distaste thinking it merely a ramshackle shack on stilts in the water. Some are obviously more elaborate than others. All are functional. I remember being taken to a blind down the Northern Neck one time, and when approaching the blind it reminded me of the houses off the coast of New Orleans. The blind was on telephone poles and was HUGE. There was a couch and a small stove in the blind. There was room for ten or more hunters. The guys swapped out shooting while others lounged in the rear of the blind.
My first blinds were really bad looking. I was nearly ashamed to hunt out of them they were so bad looking. That point was driven home years ago when upon approaching my first ever built duck blind, a friend commented, “Man, you are in the ghetto with that blind!”
However, what outsiders don’t know is that special things are said and conversations are sacred in those blinds. Duck blinds are where deep thoughts are shared, family issues are sorted out and sometimes secrets are shared. Special moments are experienced; futures are figured out. Advice is given, world problems are sorted out, and once the serious stuff is taken care of, jokes are told and played on fellow hunters like dummy loads being slipped into guns and guns getting emptied when the owner is not looking. Sure, being there is about calling and hopefully shooting ducks, but the ducks in Virginia don’t tend to overwhelm hunters in numbers and there is a lot of time spaced between shooting and flights of birds.
I cannot remember a time I did not enjoy standing in a duck blind. Admittedly, I hate the cold weather EXCEPT while duck hunting. Even I am not sure how that happens but it is true. I can stand a long time in the cold while duck hunting and actually enjoy it. There is a special beauty about being in the duck blind with snow or even rain falling. Crystal clear blue bird days in the blind are just as gorgeous but in a totally different way. I have seen some really memorable things while in my blind too. A flock of turkey coasted over the creek through the fog last year. A small group of deer swam the creek through the same fog.
This year I have had the honor and pleasure to share the blind with my youngest daughter. How many dads can say they have a daughter that is just ate up with waterfowl hunting? Of those, how many feel that way despite years of getting next to nothing because of few ducks and a not so great spot to have a blind? I am very blessed because my daughter lives for duck hunting despite the poor hunting we have access to. She is the one that beats me getting ready in the mornings and she does nearly all the work getting the truck loaded and the dog ready. She never complains. I probably would not go that often due to the lack of birds we have, but sharing that blind with her and her little yellow lab makes every minute of the time well worth it.
This season the morning light found us waterfowl hunting a half dozen or so times despite my schedule and I never went alone. She and her dog were with me each time. We got to see those turkey float through the fog, and the deer swim the creek. We got buzzed by mergansers that passed so close that I ducked feeling the air being displaced before popping up and shooting.
On the last day of the season we went to a marsh and hid in the brush watching and waiting. The day before, a goose had been gotten there. On the last day we hunted, we sat on that briar covered bank and talked about her dog, her future plans to open a dog kennel, and locations where she would want to have it. All the while we kept our eyes scanning the sky. That was a very special few hours I got to spend with my daughter. As the sun dropped to the horizon and time got short, we reminisced about things that had gotten upside down while hunting or things the dog had done on previous hunts. We laughed and smiled and our hearts were happy despite no birds wheeling in. At the end of legal shooting we gathered our belongings and trudged out therefore ending our season. However, we did so with joy in our hearts and a smile on our face. We will suffer a little withdrawal until next season but we will be OK. The memories of sharing a blind, and having those special conversations will keep us going. If you have never shared a blind with someone, surely you are missing out. Next season, give it a try.